Physical entertainment used to be my go-to gift - like a movie, music, a book, or video game were great gifts to wrap up to give or to receive. Nowadays, with everything being digital, this is a sucky gift to give or get, like, thanks for the clutter. Which has made it a heck of a lot harder to shop for people.
I feel like I have a LOT of stuff, and I don't want more stuff. So a few years ago, I started asking for things that were more "experiences" than items to add to my stuff. Massages, gift cards to restaurants, movie money, disneyland passes, and ski passes, have all been excellent gifts. Clothing is always a good gift. Special kudos for my Keurig right before the girls were born - a very thoughtful gift that provided much needed instant caffeine at 3 a.m. many many times!
James and I have recently been discussing what to get the girls for Christmas
and their First Birthday (
side note: FML how are they turning 1 so soon?) We will be in Connecticut for Christmas so I will likely get them something small for actual Christmas day, if they even know how to open a gift anyway (doubt that), but something like a first bracelet that they can have as a keepsake, or along those lines. But then I want to get them something really cool for their first Birthday. This will be year 1 of the dilemma of satisfying totally separate and unique Christmas gifts, and then birthday gifts, for two separate people, and I want to make sure we get it right and make it special. (Though I doubt the girls will be too critical this year).
I feel like the girls already have a gazillion toys, and with 6 grandparents will likely be very spoiled with toys, so I have actually been trying to think of non-toy things, such as their own
little chairs, a
play table, or some
riding toys. In the meantime, over the last year, I've been creating an Amazon wish list of stuff, as I think of it or hear of must have items, that the girls might like over the next few toddler years. (Some of the wish list includes coloring easels, driveway chalk, bath crayons, tea sets).
Well coincidentally, I came across a blog (link and pasted below) this morning about non-toy gifts, and thought I would add it to my blog for safe keeping. There are some really good ideas on here!! We'll see how we do this year, and frankly it shouldn't be too hard, because shopping for the girls is like, my #1 activity, and I do hope we will always be mindful of the girls not only sharing a birthday, but so close to Christmas, and make their birthdays as special as possible.
Season Passes
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Zoo
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Museum
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Butterfly Conservatory
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Aviary
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Aquarium
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Amusement Park
One-Time Passes
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Movies
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Bowling
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Swimming
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Theatre Performance
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Go see a sporting event
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Disney On Ice
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Circus
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Ice Skating
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Roller Skating
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Mini Golf
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Concert
Experiences for Kids
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Horse & Buggy Ride
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Train Ride
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Ice Cream Vouchers
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Special dinner out
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A Trip to the Fire Station
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A Trip to Chuckie Cheese (buy the tokens ahead of time so you have something to wrap!)
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Coupon book with "time" gifts (ie. an afternoon making cookies with mom)
Older Kids or Grown-Ups
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Hot Air Balloon Ride
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Wine Tasting
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Murder Mystery Evening
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Zip Lining
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Helicopter Ride
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Trip to the Spa (Mani/Pedi, Massage, Facial, etc.)
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Rock Climbing
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Trip to Arcade
A Class or Season of Lessons
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Swimming
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Sports
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Gymnastics
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Dance
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Karate
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Musical Instrument
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Pottery Class- or paint your own pottery
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Art Class
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Craft class (ie. knitting)
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Horseback riding lessons
Family Experiences
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A night(s) away at a local hotel (with a pool)
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A hotel with an indoor waterpark
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Camping (depends where you live & how much you love Winter camping ;)
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Road trip
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Give them travel/camping gear needed for the experience you'll be gifting so that they have a physical item to unwrap
Physical Gifts that aren't Toys
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Books
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Games
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DVD
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CDs of fun kids music
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Craft kits
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Science kit
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New art supplies
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Magazine Subscription
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Monthly Craft Kit Subscription
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Fun Bath Supplies (colour-changing water, crayons that write on walls, foamy soap, etc.)
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A wagon to pull kids in when you go on walks
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Stationary
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Special Christmas Tree Ornament
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Wrist watch
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Piggy bank
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Memory/Photo Book
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Journal
Fun "Needs"
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Kid furniture
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New bedding that they really like
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Bedroom décor/Promise of a total room makeover
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New hat, mitts, etc.
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Bike
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Scooter
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Roller skates/blades
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Basketball hoop
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Trampoline
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Swing set (for big ticket items like this, grandparents can pitch in)
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An item they need, but they wanted a more expensive version than you would normally buy (ie. boots/clothes)
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Colourful band aids
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Sled/toboggan/other winter outdoor things
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Sleeping bag
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Flashlight
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Toy box
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Personal set of scriptures
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Jewelry box
Learning Tools
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Telescope
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Magnifying glass
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Strong Magnet
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Science Kit
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Magic Kit
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Cookbook & Apron/Chef Hat
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Easel
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Chalkboard
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Gardening tools
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Bug-catching tools (better if you don't live somewhere that's snowy ;)
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Binoculars
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Globe
Others
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Educational App they can play on your phone/ipod/tablet or Computer Game
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Items they need for lessons (costume/instrument/etc.)
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A new game for a game console
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A refill for an easy bake oven or other toy requiring refills
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A pet! (perhaps a "certificate" saying that you will go and pick one out together)
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Pet Accessories/supplies
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iTunes gift card